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Sunday, January 18, 2009

Don't Allow Others In Your Life To Run Down Your Dreams Of Online Success,

I deal with this issue a lot, from my closest FAMILY and FRIENDS. The joking, the nagging, making fun, and the hurtful words like your an idiot, your a fool. And I'm sure the majority of people trying to succeed with an online business deals with it to.

Yes it's a tragic thought, but this happens everyday to a lot of marketers. So we're not alone. The main reasons for this is because most people are in the mindset of a 9 to 5 J.O.B. (just over broke). Most people are in the comfort zone, and change scares them. They're afraid to step out of that comfort zone, for fear of failure.

This can be depressing at times, make us angry, and you feel like just giving up. But you just have to keep on keepin on, push forward, reverse that anger and depression into a positive. This generally gives me more drive and motivation to succeed. Face failures square in the face, and learn from your mistakes.

Another reason for the nay sayers in your life is because most offline people just can't grasp how someone can earn substantial amounts of money from their computer. With time and effort of course.

So, sometimes you need to educate people as to how it's done. Of course, you're going to
get your "heckler" of the family or friends group and no matter what you say, they still won't
"get it". Nor do they want to. They're right and you're wrong. End of story.

But just because you value these peoples opinion, and they just don't get it, doesn't mean you stop trying to succeed as an online marketer. You need to keep trying, because it can be done, with the right tools, time, and effort. And when you keep pushing forward, show them you can do it, the silence of the lambs will come once they see you proved them wrong.

It's not easy balancing time between your family and online ventures, but you can do it. If your like me, sometimes you get complaints of spending to much time on that darn computer. Don't neglect your family and friends, but don't let them hold you back either.

There's always a workable solution to fizzle out the "nay sayers" before their depressing, hurtful words of doubt have a chance to settle in to your goal mindsets.


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